Dear Esha: Halloween-Inspired Sex Tips

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Dear Esha: Halloween-Inspired Sex Tips

Dear Esha,

Halloween is coming up and I have a special night planned with my girl, but I want it to be extra special/maybe something a little kinkier than normal since we tend to keep things pretty tame. What do you suggest? We are open to new ideas. Thank you so much!–  T. 24


It is so much fun to give and take a little trick and a little treat, especially in the bedroom! This Halloween, I challenge you to inject some Halloween flare in your sexacapades.

Being tied up and dressing in leather can really bring out the ghoul in you this season. So, do not be shy and go all out by turning your room into a dark dungeon of sexy Halloween-themed fun that will excite your partner’s every sense. Dim the lights, have some lit candles placed around the room and tie her ass up as you torture and tease her with delights such as a spankings and slippery wet kisses. Whether you decide to trick or treat your partner, it will be so much more fun if you get in the spirit.

Costumes are another way that you can change up “in the sheets” game. Dress up and get into a role. Think of the fun that could be had if you were a mad scientist picking and prodding till she screams for mercy? Or perhaps the hungry wolf has caught its prey…no matter what you do, just be creative and have fun.

Now, that I have you imagination running wild, I’m going to have to ask you take a deep breath and seriously pay attention to me when I say that you should NEVER tie your partner up with rope. Please just do a little bit of research to prevent any unfortunate incidents or accidents. Bondage can be great, but only after you have learned the rules, you know? Just play responsibly.

DO NOT just tie up your partner in rope! PLEASE do some research as you could potentially harm your partner. Bondage is great, but only after you’ve learned the rules (speaking of learning the rules, I highly recommend that you read Bondage Basics: Naughty Knots and Risque Restraints You Need To Know which you can purchase via Amazon here). ALWAYS play responsibly!


If you are a little uncomfortable with diving too deeply into bondage right away, you might want to just try out some soft cuffs .

Dear Esha


These ones from Wandafull are available here on Amazon and are quick-release and pretty freakin’ easy to get the hang of.

I hope you have a festive night! Please let me know how it went, as follow ups are always fun.


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